It's heartbreaking to realize a day after our wedding that we made a huge mistake, larger than any blunder that happened in our wedding and in our whole lives.
A lot of our suppliers failed to deliver, yet we are quite sure that most of our guests did not notice. It is all because of God's faithfulness. He manifested Himself in our wedding, giving us a beautiful and Spirit-filled ceremony and program. We honestly couldn't ask for more, what with all the blessings He gave us -- from our friends and family who willingly blessed us, to the incomprehensible shower of material blessings and providence all throughout the day.
Yet... during our acknowledgments yesterday, we, on the first night as a married couple, forgot to thank and praise God. We gave credit to our friends and family, to our suppliers, but not to God. It's a shame, and we are utterly sad about it, because both of us know the reason why.
Weeks leading up to the wedding, we got caught up in the preparations, the hassles, the blessings and in each other. It is beyond shame that just on our honeymoon, we realize that we already failed at our promise to glorify God through our relationship. But God remains faithful.
And so we will not take this circumstance lightly. We want to confess of this mistake because God deserves more from us. He love continues to overwhelm us, and His faithfulness continues to shine through. We run back to Him and stand on grace when we say that we'll start again - right where our love for each other began.
We want to say sorry to all our guests and suppliers (as well as to the people who will see our wedding video thanking everyone but God). We write this on our first honeymoon night repentant and now hopeful, that by God's grace and with your help, we can do our best to never forget Him, to never lose focus again, to go back to the Start and Source of this love.
- Gail & Ching, 12.21.2010